Fri 24 Jul 2009
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Chet McDoniel asked: From a young age, we teach children to say “thank you.” In fact, the teaching is so prevalent that often times in public, you hear the phrase commonly spoken from parent to child, “What do you say?” Usually, a meek or quick “thank you” is uttered and the parent is satisfied. The practice is to be lauded as our children need to learn to be thankful. Thankfulness is a very important lesson as gratitude is crucial to a happy life.
So, if gratitude is so important that we spend time teaching it to toddlers, why is it difficult for so many adults to accept a compliment? I’ve heard and seen so many scenarios when something
Nice is said to someone else, and the receiver of the compliment immediately disclaims the remark. Maybe the compliment receiver utters, “Oh, you don’t really mean that…” or maybe they simply give an eye-roll to make sure that the compliment giver knows that they don’t believe in the compliment.
WHY? Are we embarrassed when something good is said about us? Are we trying to show humility? Maybe those who disclaim compliments are trying to communicate that they don’t believe the compliment could be true. Is our collective self-esteem so poor that we don’t even like compliments?
I believe that accepting compliments is a crucial step towards believing in yourself. Many times after a speaking engagement, I’ll hear things like, “You changed my life” or “You are amazing, and I loved your talk.” One woman came out of a recent talk that my dad and I gave and said she had acknowledged that she had a bad attitude. She had decided to give her failing marriage another chance because of our presentation. WOW! Am I that good? Is our message that powerful? I can’t answer those questions.
I can say that God uses us to spread the Good News to everyone who will hear, and He gets all the glory. I can’t disclaim a compliment with an eye-roll because I know that if I do, what I am really saying is that I’m not good enough for God to make use of. I can’t and won’t believe that. As one person put it, “God don’t make no junk!”
So, when I am complimented, like the young child, I say “thank you” or if appropriate, “praise God.” I dare you to try it. If you are accustomed to shying away from compliments, try responding “thank you.” Not only will you feel better, the compliment giver will also feel better as he/she will be validated, too.
And, remember, as children, most of us were taught to say “thank you.” If a child can do it, so can you!
Wed 22 Jul 2009
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Gen Wright asked: The new year is coming, and perhaps you are wondering what to say to your other half on Valentine’s day, 2009. There are literally thousands and thousands of romantic
Sayings that you can communicate to your partner. They come in many different styles. Your challenge, is to choose something that suits your personality. Here are some common romantic saying styles.
Poetic style.
This is the most commonly seen, and perhaps the most popular style. You will find all sorts of romantic sayings written by past and present poets. Rhymes and verses just make romantic sayings sound more beautiful. That’s just what comes out of using words in a poetic manner. You can consider adopting this style if you have an interest in poems. Make sure you know something about the poet just in case your lover asks you where you got your inspiration from!
Popular media style.
This is also another hugely popular style. Popular media style means your romantic saying will be similar to what you usually come across in movies, TV shows, magazines, or even fiction story books. The characteristics of popular media style is that the writing is simple, straight forward, and at times a little bit airy. Airy in the sense that it doesn’t really sound practical. But that’s okay for romantic sayings. They are meant to be music to the ears, so they don’t have to be a hundred percent realistic.
Teenage style.
This style is clearly not for every one. But it can certainly bring back happy memories. For example, if you have known your lover since your were teenagers, perhaps this style may work. The key to writing romantic sayings in this style is to keep the theme around loyalty.
Ancient style.
There are so many examples of ancient romantic sayings on the Internet. For instance, you can find romantic greek sayings, romantic roman sayings, and so on. These are mostly written by poets, philosophers, artists, and politicians. Some of the sayings are really beautiful. You will be missing out if you don’t look them up.
Philosophical style.
Be a little careful with this style. Not everyone can appreciate philosophical romantic sayings. Usually, such sayings imply something about the meaning of life or about the meaning of relationships. They are profound, so not everyone welcome them. So if your lover doesn’t know how to appreciate philosophy, keep the sayings to yourself.
As you can see, there are many types of romantic sayings to choose from. Ask yourself if you know your lover well enough to be able to choose a style that you know will work. Of course, you should never choose something that is not congruent with who you are. For example, if you have never been interested in poems, don’t frighten your lover by spouting poetic romantic sayings all of the sudden. They may come out more like romantic ramblings instead. And that will cost you to lose some points.
Mon 20 Jul 2009
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Michael Lee asked:
You have the ring in one hand and you’re down on bended knee. But do you know what to say when you propose marriage? “Will you marry me” just seems so abrupt.
Everyone has their own way of proposing marriage. Unfortunately, a lot of people seem to think that you only have to pop the question. But if you really want to make the moment count, you have to know what to say when you propose marriage.
1) Who is she to you?
One of the things to say when you propose marriage is what that person means to you. She’s not just your girlfriend. You’ll have to tell her the qualities that endeared her to you. What does she bring to your life?
2) Who are you when you’re with her?
What kind of person have you become since you two got together? Every woman wants to know that she has had some influence in her man’s life. Just make sure to enumerate only the positive influences.
3) What’s in store for the future?
One of the important things to say when you propose marriage is your plan for the future. You don’t have to give her all the details, but it would be wonderful if you can say something about it.
While not absolutely necessary in a proposal, it does give the girl the impression that you’ve thought long and hard about this plan.
4) What do you promise her?
Don’t just recite the wedding vows. You have to promise from the heart. Do you promise to let her have monopoly of the remote control except during basketball season? You can be as funny as you want to make the whole situation lighter.
5) Tell her you love her and will love her more everyday.
But most importantly, you have to promise her that you will love her forever. It’s what marriage is all about. You know there’ll be tough times but together, you’ll make it through.
It’s important to know what to say when you propose marriage. You don’t need to have a script in hand, but it would be better if you tried to organize your thoughts before acting upon your feelings.
Mon 20 Jul 2009
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Mark Taylor asked:
Every girl wants a sweet guy and would love to hear sweet nothings once in a while. Hey, guys like it too and nothing could compare more to the feeling of hearing your girl tell you how much you make them happy. Of course, girls are more likely to be the romantic champs on this side of the world but this should not stop you from bringing out your passionate side as well. Read on and take the following tips on what to say to a girl to make her love you.
• You have the most amazing eyes. Say this out of the blue, or while you’re having a whole different topic. The thing is to keep her off guard, so as not to sound creepy. Your girl will definitely blush on this one.
• I think I’m falling in love with you. This ones the most risky line. We know girls are complex beings and either of the two things would happen: she will get totally paranoid and speed off or, will fall in love with you at that.
• I’m in love with you. This will definitely rattle their brains out. However, do not say this under the influence of liquor. They will think you’re joking. Well, unless you are…
• You look very pretty tonight. Again, catch her off guard. This doesn’t mean she’s not pretty most of the time. If you notice that she looks more made up than usual, she will appreciate it if you let her know.
• I’d like to see you again. When she’s about to leave or vice versa, say the words slowly, like you’re really want to get together again. Also, deliver the lines while staring deep into her eyes. This will make her heart beat wild on her way home.
Remember, these aren’t stuff you say during a first date. Come on, man. That will make you look totally stupid. At least, establish friendship with the girl first before getting chummy. Most of all, everything will be much easier if you say these with full honesty and sincerity. Girls have very reliable intuition and most of them can tell I you’re just bluffing.
If you want more lines to make your swoon and to find out more on what to say to a girl to make her love you, feel free to check out my website. Get a dose of my other tactics that will guarantee you a chance to be with the girl of your dreams, and a prospect to look forward for happier days ahead!
Sun 19 Jul 2009
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Sun 19 Jul 2009
Tony Bernard asked:
Recruiting leads into your downline can seem like a difficult thing to do. You’re not sure what to say to them and when they object to joining you, you’re not sure how to overcome it. So, what I’m going to do is share with you some tips on recruiting leads into your downline.
That way, you will know what to say to get them to join you in your home business.
There are a couple of things that a lot of people object to when joining a home based business. The first thing is money. They want to know if you’re making money.
Now, what you can say to them is; 1.) You can’t disclose that info because your company won’t allow it. This is true for most home businesses. 2.) It doesn’t matter what you’re making, it doesn’t guarantee that they’ll make a million bucks. 3.) Or jokingly, you can tell them that you make a million bucks a year. And then tell them that you don’t disclose how much you make and that you can understand that they want to know.
Bottom line is…this is your business. You don’t have to get interviewed by the person you are calling. It’s ok to answer a few questions and concerns. But at the end of the day, there are thousands of people out there that want you to help them.
Another thing you can say to help when recruiting leads into your downline is to make sure you can overcome skeptics. There are a lot of people that are skeptical of products, services, and making money in a home business. When overcoming this, just make sure you tell them that there are guarantees in place to help them.
Your products and services should come with a guarantee. If they don’t, you can always add your own. Tell them you will buy the products back if they don’t like it. There are a lot of twists you can add to this to recruit more people into your home business.
These are some tips on recruiting leads into your downline. If you really want to grow your home business, you’re going to have to call the leads that you buy or generate. Either way, each call you make, you will become better and more successful.
Sun 19 Jul 2009
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Richard C asked:
You have had a heated argument with your partner, and he/she has stormed out of the room. Now you feel hurt, angry, and dismayed all at once. Now that you have had time to think about it, the whole reason for the fight seems pretty trivial. Still, you think it is their fault, and you are right no matter what! Why must you always apologize? You have no doubt heard the saying’ Love is having to say you are sorry’, and to get someone back when they’ve walked out on you, doesn’t have to be difficult. How to say I am Sorry in a relationship if you think your partner was at fault is hard; but someone has to make the first move, and it may be you if you want to save the relationship. It doesn’t matter if your partner walked out after the argument a few days ago or a few months ago. The same principles to apologize still apply, and all that needs to be done is for you to be determined, committed to your cause, and to take the necessary action to say I am sorry and mean it.
Saying Sorry can Rescue the relationship!
To say I am sorry to your partner, means first figuring out what went wrong, how the argument started, and what was your role in the argument. This isn’t about blaming just for blames sake, it’s about working out what you need to do to apologize, and to make things right in the relationship. Remember it takes two to make a relationship work and having said that it also two to break a relationship, so be honest with yourself and take your share of the blame for what happened. If you know how to say I am sorry and mean it, you will more often than not get an apology from your partner as well, because they will also feel hurt just like you are feeling. Swallow your pride and say ‘I am sorry’ as soon as possible before all is lost!
Arguments can cause breakups in a relationship, and to get your partner back afterwards, means you are going to need an effective top draw apology. The apology must, in effect serve two ends: firstly, an explanation of why you are apologizing, and then a further explanation of what compromises you will implement so that the same problems that caused the argument in the first place will never occur again. Get these two aspects right, and your apology will work for you just like you want it to.
It takes courage to say you are sorry.
Apologizing when you know you are right takes a lot of courage. No doubt your partner will also realize this, and as a result love you all the more for it. To say I am sorry you can plan a dinner date together or meet at someplace special where there are no interruptions or distractions. Look your partner in the eye when you apologize and mean it from your heart as well. Put feeling into the words while explaining about what happened to start the argument or problems and then elaborate on the second part of your apology, to your partner how what happened; will never happen again. Your partner will realize that you are serious and sincere in your apology. Knowing how to say you are sorry in a relationship opens lines of communication again, and you can undo the damage.
Sat 18 Jul 2009
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Chris Roberts asked:
You should find out more even you think that you have learnt a bit about the art of dirty talking. There are two sides of everything. If you end up becoming over confident then you may start talking rubbish with your partner. So you have to learn what not to say while talking dirty. If you really want to be erotic and make your partner feel passionate about your dirty talks then you need to take care about both dos and don’ts. I am sure you don’t want to spoil the good sexy mood of your partner by saying the wrong things at the wrong time.
I would explain what not to say while talking dirty by example. Here is the first example. You should not talk to your partner about your menstruation cycles or your physical problems. This would truly turn him off. Never take a chance of talking to your partner about your gastric or unwell stomach problems. The passion that you would have created till now would all go in vain.
Now, here is the example number two. You should never talk to your partner about your pets or your family problems. Nobody would like to listen to these things when they’re in truly sexy mood. If your pet is disturbing you by barking then you should better send it out of your bedroom. Another important thing is don’t rush into things by saying that “Lets finish it quickly I am feeling tired”. If you are tired then how can you expect your partner to feel enthusiastic about you?
Dirty talks can really improve your relationships with your partner. But you need to practice it to reach to the perfection. You can control your partner feelings or mood if you know what not to say while talking dirty.
Fri 17 Jul 2009
Peter Harris asked:
Have you ever done something wrong and thought that if you just apologize everything would be alright? Your problems would go away and everyone would be happy. You would come out smelling like roses because you took the high road and offered an apology. If it were only that simple! How to say sorry seems simple enough to do but its meaning can often be misinterpreted.
How many times have you apologized for something that you may or may not have done just to have the apology blow up in your face? You think you are going to make everything alright but your apology leads to more fighting. If this hasn’t happened to you I bet you know someone that it has happened too.
So why doesn’t an apology always make things right? How can an apology make matters worse? There are several reasons as to why this happens and why an apology can backfire and have the exact opposite effect than it is supposed to have.
One reason how to say sorry can backfire is because we use an apology as an admission of wrongdoing. We admit we were wrong but then we typically offer excuses and justifications for our behaviours. This usually leads to more arguing. You can change this by changing your mindset of what the purpose of an apology should be. Now the purpose of the apology should be to “accept responsiblity for the rift in the relationship.”
Another reason that apologies backfire is simply because we say the wrong things at the wrong times. What words we say can make the difference between having the apology lead to a productive discussion that can lead to resolving whatever problems you are having vs. an apology that leads to further argument. The most common mistake that we make saying I’m sorry is placing too much emphasis on who’s right and who’s wrong.
How to say sorry effectively requires you to be in the right frame of mind before attempting to deliver the apology. You should never lead your apology with “I know how you feel…” This type of statement can be offensive to the other person, only making them angrier. Your apology should be centered around acknowledging how the other person feels. This requires some thought and should not be taken lightly.
Before saying I’m sorry you need to be prepared regarding how you will handle the “why” question. When something goes wrong in a relationship the question of “why” always comes up. Why did you do this or why did you do that? This needs to be handled delicately and with sensitivity or the apology can easily go sour only to make matters worse.
Another aspect of how to say sorry that needs to be incorporated into the apology is to let your partner know how the situation has affected you as well. In doing so you must be careful not to place blame on your partner or be accusatory. You are still accepting responsibility for the problem but at the same time expressing how the problem has affected you.
Finally - in learning how to say sorry more effectively we have to learn how to apologize without defense. This simply means that we apologize without expecting anything in return. You offer an apology but realize that the other person may not accept it. It would be great it they forgive you - but they may not.
Fri 17 Jul 2009
Erick Christopher asked:
Things to say to get my ex girlfriend back is what most guys are looking for. Some of you may think that there are magic words to say to an ex girlfriend that you still like in order to get them back. Let me tell you something, I have been writing about relationships over and over again for a long time now. There are no magic words to say to your ex girlfriend. What you need to say to her in order to win her back is not as important as your actions. Ok here are the “things to say to get my ex girlfriend back” and the things not to say to her.
How to get an ex girlfriend back means that you should watch your mouth until she is not your ex anymore. The first warning that many experts give people in your situation is that you must never confess your undying love to your ex girlfriend. This is how it works whether you accept it or not. Now don’t misunderstand me, She is your ex and you probably love her. You don’t want to confess your undying feelings towards her. Don’t say to her that you love her so much. In stead wait for the right time to say this words. Right now you should be focused on attracting her back, Showing her that you are a normal person and not appearing desperate. You see what I am saying?
In stead of talking to her and trying to tell her things that you think she may want to hear..or things that you think will change her mind and convince her to come back, Relax and let your actions speak than your mouth. Change some things about yourself so that she can see how a better person you are for her. If there are things that she used to complain about you, Make some changes about whatever she used to complain about. This works better than promising her that you will change. You see my point? Now I have given you these two warnings, Lets look into what you can say to her in order to attract her back.
How to get an ex girlfriend back means that you should have some sense of humor going on between the two of you. An ex girlfriend will find you a magnet if you make her lough and smile. Be funny, Be confident and and make her lough and she can fall for you again. If you remember any moments on the past that you had fun together, Zoom in into that and make her enjoy the conversation. She may finally see what kind of men she is missing.
Things to say to get my ex girlfriend back is what most guys screw up. In stead of always telling her stuff that bring arguments between the two of you, Just be kind to her and she will appreciate that. You want to tell her things that make her feel that you care and at the same time not appearing desperate to her.
How to get an ex girlfriend back has a lot to do with your actions, Your general impressions than what comes out of your mouth. Tell her positive things and always expect the unexpected. You are dealing with an ex girlfriend here so she may not always welcome anything you do or say to her. As a general rule, Avoid making her not want to talk to you again by being kind and showing her that you care. These are the things to say to get your ex girlfriend back and I recommend that you always tell her positive things.
