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Gen Wright asked:


The new year is coming, and perhaps you are wondering what to say to your other half on Valentine’s day, 2009. There are literally thousands and thousands of romantic Sayings that you can communicate to your partner. They come in many different styles. Your challenge, is to choose something that suits your personality. Here are some common romantic saying styles.

Poetic style.

This is the most commonly seen, and perhaps the most popular style. You will find all sorts of romantic sayings written by past and present poets. Rhymes and verses just make romantic sayings sound more beautiful. That’s just what comes out of using words in a poetic manner. You can consider adopting this style if you have an interest in poems. Make sure you know something about the poet just in case your lover asks you where you got your inspiration from!

Popular media style.

This is also another hugely popular style. Popular media style means your romantic saying will be similar to what you usually come across in movies, TV shows, magazines, or even fiction story books. The characteristics of popular media style is that the writing is simple, straight forward, and at times a little bit airy. Airy in the sense that it doesn’t really sound practical. But that’s okay for romantic sayings. They are meant to be music to the ears, so they don’t have to be a hundred percent realistic.

Teenage style.

This style is clearly not for every one. But it can certainly bring back happy memories. For example, if you have known your lover since your were teenagers, perhaps this style may work. The key to writing romantic sayings in this style is to keep the theme around loyalty.

Ancient style.

There are so many examples of ancient romantic sayings on the Internet. For instance, you can find romantic greek sayings, romantic roman sayings, and so on. These are mostly written by poets, philosophers, artists, and politicians. Some of the sayings are really beautiful. You will be missing out if you don’t look them up.

Philosophical style.

Be a little careful with this style. Not everyone can appreciate philosophical romantic sayings. Usually, such sayings imply something about the meaning of life or about the meaning of relationships. They are profound, so not everyone welcome them. So if your lover doesn’t know how to appreciate philosophy, keep the sayings to yourself.

As you can see, there are many types of romantic sayings to choose from. Ask yourself if you know your lover well enough to be able to choose a style that you know will work. Of course, you should never choose something that is not congruent with who you are. For example, if you have never been interested in poems, don’t frighten your lover by spouting poetic romantic sayings all of the sudden. They may come out more like romantic ramblings instead. And that will cost you to lose some points.



Mark Taylor asked:


Every girl wants a sweet guy and would love to hear sweet nothings once in a while. Hey, guys like it too and nothing could compare more to the feeling of hearing your girl tell you how much you make them happy. Of course, girls are more likely to be the romantic champs on this side of the world but this should not stop you from bringing out your passionate side as well. Read on and take the following tips on what to say to a girl to make her love you.

• You have the most amazing eyes. Say this out of the blue, or while you’re having a whole different topic. The thing is to keep her off guard, so as not to sound creepy. Your girl will definitely blush on this one.

• I think I’m falling in love with you. This ones the most risky line. We know girls are complex beings and either of the two things would happen: she will get totally paranoid and speed off or, will fall in love with you at that.

• I’m in love with you. This will definitely rattle their brains out. However, do not say this under the influence of liquor. They will think you’re joking. Well, unless you are…

• You look very pretty tonight. Again, catch her off guard. This doesn’t mean she’s not pretty most of the time. If you notice that she looks more made up than usual, she will appreciate it if you let her know.

• I’d like to see you again. When she’s about to leave or vice versa, say the words slowly, like you’re really want to get together again. Also, deliver the lines while staring deep into her eyes. This will make her heart beat wild on her way home.

Remember, these aren’t stuff you say during a first date. Come on, man. That will make you look totally stupid. At least, establish friendship with the girl first before getting chummy. Most of all, everything will be much easier if you say these with full honesty and sincerity. Girls have very reliable intuition and most of them can tell I you’re just bluffing.

If you want more lines to make your swoon and to find out more on what to say to a girl to make her love you, feel free to check out my website. Get a dose of my other tactics that will guarantee you a chance to be with the girl of your dreams, and a prospect to look forward for happier days ahead!



Richard C asked:


You have had a heated argument with your partner, and he/she has stormed out of the room. Now you feel hurt, angry, and dismayed all at once. Now that you have had time to think about it, the whole reason for the fight seems pretty trivial. Still, you think it is their fault, and you are right no matter what!  Why must you always apologize? You have no doubt heard the saying’ Love is having to say you are sorry’, and to get someone back when they’ve walked out on you, doesn’t have to be difficult.  How to say I am Sorry in a relationship if you think your partner was at fault is hard; but someone has to make the first move, and it may be you if you want to save the relationship. It doesn’t matter if your partner walked out after the argument a few days ago or a few months ago. The same principles to apologize still apply, and all that needs to be done is for you to be determined, committed to your cause, and to take the necessary action to say I am sorry and mean it.

Saying Sorry can Rescue the relationship!

To say I am sorry to your partner, means first figuring out what went wrong, how the argument started, and what was your role in the argument. This isn’t about blaming just for blames sake, it’s about working out what you need to do to apologize, and to make things right in the relationship. Remember it takes two to make a relationship work and having said that it also two to break a relationship, so be honest with yourself and take your share of the blame for what happened. If you know how to say I am sorry and mean it, you will more often than not get an apology from your partner as well, because they will also feel hurt just like you are feeling. Swallow your pride and say ‘I am sorry’ as soon as possible before all is lost!

Arguments can cause breakups in a relationship, and to get your partner back afterwards, means you are going to need an effective top draw apology. The apology must, in effect serve two ends: firstly, an explanation of why you are apologizing, and then a further explanation of what compromises you will implement so that the same problems that caused the argument in the first place will never occur again.  Get these two aspects right, and your apology will work for you just like you want it to.

It takes courage to say you are sorry.

Apologizing when you know you are right takes a lot of courage. No doubt your partner will also realize this, and as a result love you all the more for it. To say I am sorry you can plan a dinner date together or meet at someplace special where there are no interruptions or distractions. Look your partner in the eye when you apologize and mean it from your heart as well. Put feeling into the words while explaining about what happened to start the argument or problems and then elaborate on the second part of your apology, to your partner how what happened; will never happen again.  Your partner will realize that you are serious and sincere in your apology.   Knowing how to say you are sorry in a relationship opens lines of communication again, and you can undo the damage.

 

 



Michael Lee asked:


Having a tough time thinking of sweet things to say to your boyfriend? If you try searching online for sweet words to say, majority of the results you get are often in favor of men. However, guys do like to hear Nice things from their partners.

Guys are always expected to say nice things to girls, but why not make a change? Do your share of the intimacy in your relationship. Speak up and make your man appreciate you more by doing so yourself. Some of the sweet things to say to your boyfriend are actually the simplest. This will surely add zest and color to the bond you share.

Words may come as plain remarks, although to some these are powerful expressions of devotion and love, depending on how they are said. Here are some scenarios that you might want to take note of.

1) Men may seem tough and impassive at times, but they do have that soft side. They want their women to comfort them in words and in presence.

So always be ready with sweet things to say to your boyfriend, even if it’s as simple as “Thank you for always being there for me” or “I love you.” Take time to appreciate everything he’s done for you.

2) Women hate it when guys are late in their agreed time. Instead of making a scene, say this instead, “Are you ok? Is everything alright?”

Try to listen to his reason before bursting out. It will be best if you listen first before mouthing uncalled for comments.

3) Men do not like naggers. This is the reason why so many relationships fail because men could not take the agony of hearing women keeping on at them. Instead of being so negative all the time, always have some sweet things to say to your boyfriend.

4) After long hours of work, it would be nice of you to ask him, “Have you eaten already? Can I offer you something?”

By doing so, your boyfriend would be pleased to know that he is important to you and that you truly care. But try not to barrage him with so many questions because these may aggravate him.

5) Compliment your boyfriend with such statements as “You really look good tonight/today.”

Give him an earnest flattering remark. Make him feel confident about himself by praising and uttering nice words about his appearance, or even his attitude and skills. Be careful in choosing your words. As much as possible, be honest about it.

When making remarks or having sweet things to say to your boyfriend, remember to say them at the right time and place. Timing is crucial. It could make or break a compliment. Do not just blurt out in the open because you want to do so. Pick the right moment to say those sweet words to your man.



Michael Lee asked:


It’s not often that women find themselves looking for ways to propose to a man. After all, it is usually the guy who takes the initiative. However, switching things up can also be a lot of fun.

A woman who wishes to find ways to propose to a man has to take a different route. She can’t exactly kneel down on bended knee, right? To help you go through with your proposal, here are some sizzling ideas you can draw from.



Ways To Propose To A Man # 1:  Through His Stomach


They say that the way to get through a man’s heart is through his stomach. If you’re a good cook or a brilliant baker, then you’ve got this one in the basket.

Why not try making your guy an extra special meal? Sometime during the course or after dessert, you can tell him how much you love him and how you can’t wait to spend the rest of your life together. If he responds in a positive way, then you can slide in your proposal.



Ways To Propose To A Man # 2:  A Treasure Hunt


Sending your guy on a treasure hunt could be very exciting for him. You can leave him little notes here and there, which will lead him finally to you.

Your notes could also say how much you love him, and the reasons you two are a perfect couple. The final note could contain the crucial question of “Will you do me the honor of being my husband?”



Ways To Propose To A Man # 3: Writing A Short Story


If you have a gift for writing, you can express your sentiments through a short story. Find inspiration in a well-known fairytale and fashion it after the two of you.

However, leave the ending hanging with your proposal. He’d be surprised for sure; but having built up the suspense, how can he say “no?”

There are many ways to propose to a man. Although it’s not really common, the gesture isn’t as unwelcome as you think. If he really loves you, then he won’t mind you taking the first step.



Richard Holbrook asked:


Chat up lines rarely if ever work, I hope that’s obvious to you. So what can you say when you first approach women in order to get them into conversation, make sure you don’t get blown off (not in the bad way anyway), and ensure that you don’t look like an idiot?

In the realm of the ‘pick up artist’ your opening line is referred to as the ‘opener’. Funny that! The best opener is to ask a question, it can be about pretty much anything. Let me break down a couple of examples for you and explain how, and why they work.

Open by saying ‘can I get a quick female opinion on something?’. This is a great start as no matter what you look like (you could be an absolute hunk) more often than not when a strange guy approaches a women their first thought is ‘geez, when’s this guy going to leave?’ Whereas they’ll be far more open if they think you just want a quick opinion. Secondly, most women think they’ve got the answer to most things, and they love to gossip, so asking them for an opinion leaves them open.

Next the question. I’m an indie rock and roll kid so I wear skinny jeans a lot, I often go with ‘do you think that skinny jeans look good on a guy, or just make him look gay?’. Add a bit of humour to it, whilst remaining confident. You can ask pretty much anything though, another example I’ve heard is to ask ‘me and my mates were having a discussion. If you were dating a guy, and he was still friends with his ex who he broke up with 5 months ago, would you be ok with it?’ Women love to offer their opinion on this sort of stuff, so rather than them thinking ‘jeez, this guy is needy and clearly wants to get into my knickers’, they’re much more open to talk to you, it’s a great first impression.

Now go and try it, for the time being don’t try and take this further, just get used to approaching women, on their own, or when they’re in groups. Just get used to the approach and I’ll tell you how to take it further in my next post. Alternatively check out http://www.richardholbrook.info/puaroutines for a free 9 part audio course on approaching and picking up women.



Michael Lee asked:


All hearts were aflutter as Humphrey Bogart romanced Ingrid Bergman in arguably one of the most quoted movies of all time, Casablanca. Since then, romantic Sayings, though widespread throughout history in books and songs, have been a major staple of popular culture thanks to the medium of film. Perhaps you’ve come across the following before, or perhaps you might even have blurted them out yourself on more than one occasion. If not, then maybe it’s time you got yourself acquainted with these romantic sayings and use them to your advantage.

• “I love you, not only for what you are but for what I am when I am with you.”

- Roy Croft

Indeed, love makes us do strange things. Just what is it about love that drives men and women to throw caution to the wind and lose all reason and rationality? But then again, it is that same love that can save your life, and everything suddenly becomes clear to you as though you were looking at the world for the very first time. And it is that love which makes you wake up in the morning knowing you are a better person for having known it.

• “Your words are my food, your breath my wine. You are everything to me.”

- Sarah Bernhardt

These sincere words will absolutely melt your woman’s heart. Saying ‘You are everything to me’ just goes to show how important she is to your life and expresses how much you treasure her. It is quite difficult to express your feelings in just a few words, but using a romantic saying like this may just be exactly what you are looking for.

• “Love me without fear, trust me without questioning

Need me without demanding, want me without restrictions

Accept me without change, desire me without inhibitions…”

- Dick Sutphen

A poem about love and passion is probably one of the most romantic gifts that you can give to your loved one. Go through the pages of old books, look for verses from a collection of love poems, and present it as a gift to her, in your own handwriting. Men often forget that presents like this are even more precious than any material thing that you can think of.

There is a line in yet another famously romantic film, When Harry Met Sally, that goes, “You can’t express every feeling that you have every moment that you have them.” Good thing there are romantic sayings like these to help out then.



Alex Coulson asked:


What to do if she says I have a boyfriend

by Alex Coulson

What to do if she has a boyfriend

pretty women are difficult to find and when you stagger over them the odds are they’ll most likely have a boy they are seeing and even if they don’t they say they will, to me this doesn’t really make sense does it?

But don’t worry as the subsequent guidelines are to be used on prettywomen who say “I have a boyfriend” and are designed to aid you to get past the “boyfriend” excuse, I say the word excuse as the ironic view is even if a woman fancies you and she’s JUST talked to you, she’ll still say “I have a boyfriend” if you express your intentions too early on or go in for the close within the first few minutes.

gorgeous women wander around in “auto-pilot” mode most of the time. When guys stroll towards them and convey interest too early without conveying their qualities then the woman has no reason to “be single” as she’ll say she has a boyfriend even though she may not, so the key here is to put forward as much about you as possible in the initial few minutes in terms of your lifestyle and interesting traits and THEN convey interest later on.

In own experience I’ll have to say that 3/10 pretty girls who say I have a boyfriend will in all probability have one. So what do you say when she says, “I have a boyfriend”?

You: Cool … I have a dog

Or

You: Nice, I’m glad you have somebody to be around when you’re not around me.

Or

You: Well … nobody’s perfect.

The solution to battling past the boyfriend excuse is to be non- reactive; if you cringe in the least amount or even have the least amount tremor or muscle movement then she’ll know she has you.

So don’t let/allow/permit the boyfriend excuse affect/throw/imbalance you. Stay there and persevere and remember only a 3/10 of all women who say it actually mean it. My conviction is that all gorgeous women need to feel/think/know they are being chased in one way or another, this shows to them whether you really want her and are willing to persist past challenges to get her and if you do then you get some pink taco for dinner : )

One girl has actually said to me that she throws the boyfriend excuse out there to “test” a mans traits, if persists with me and persists he’s a real man as he likes challenges and has “survival” qualities. She also said that she gets disappointed when guys walk away after she says she has a boyfriend, above all if she genuinely liked the guy.

The moral? fast boyfriend – breaker tactics:

*Stay there and persevere

*Be un-reactive

*Keep escalating physically and forget she mentioned it

*“I have a dog”

Talk soon my friend,

Alex Coulson

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Francis Githinji asked:


Love has been a theme in many love songs. It the most widely discussed subject seconded by politics. It is very exciting to read or listen to love Sayings. Even in classes you will barely see a student dozing when there is a love debate or when the teacher talks about love. People love being naughty but not in public. I once listened to a group of highly achieving intelligent people and i was left completely amazed. Their type of jokes were so naughty and i came to agree with our class teacher who used to remind us all the time that just like going to the toilet is for everyone, love and sex is common to all. True love hurts because it is meant for all human beings and yet it finds the few and lucky individuals. With love everything is achievable but the love has to be special.

With love is a love saying used as a foot note in many hand written notes and letters. Does it signify anything? Must there be a romantic relationship between the writer and the intended receiver? Most people are crazy about the word love and will be quick to read what is not there. Love hurts and so do not give any hopes to people who you know that they might start imagining there own things. You might be leading someone to somewhere you are not ready to go so you ought to be careful with love sayings. It feels bad to be misinterpreted to be having interests and yet your words were innocent. There are people who do not read what they see but what they want to see.

Love sayings should used only while necessary. All the same it depends with the nature of the person. If you are a flirtatious girl, make sure everyone knows that you do not mean it. There are instances when with love as a saying is highly applicable. For example when you want to correct some one without offending them you can finish up the letter with the saying “with love”. Many love stories are never an expression of a smooth adventure. They feature some love disappointments and also some good times. Love has two extremes. It gives a good feeling to be loved but love hurts still.

Love hurts. The strong wave of emotions makes you feel so sad when something small happens. If you have been in the dating field, you must have realized that it is the small things that hurt. The heart bleeds dangerously and you experience mixed feelings. You want to walk away from a relationship and yet you do not feel strong enough. This is a sign that the dating experience is heartfelt. Some things are so minor that logic dictates that they are supposed to be left to pass unnoticed. Some people get so worked up when their partners fail to introduce them to every friend they meet. “This is my boyfriend/girlfriend” seems like one of the best love sayings in the whole world. Some instances are avoided with love. If you are introduced to every former lover, you will start comparing yourself to them and this might hurt you.



Sarah Nichols asked:


 

“…Want to but I can’t help it, I love the way you feel. You got me stuck between my fantasy and what is real…”

 

Sounds familiar, right?

 

Rhythm and Blues lovers out there (and to those who don’t know the song), that’s Ne-yo’s “Because Of You”…And if you’re wishing your man was just as crazy and as turned on like Ne-Yo whenever they’re with you, then you came to the right place!

 

I’ll be spilling out some practical tips that would weed out the uneasiness if this is first time. Ok enough talk, let’s get to the “What To Say To Turn Him On” tips:

 

What To Say To Turn Him On 1 – Talk About What You Want To Do

Talk about what you want to do with him. Period.

 

Pretty logical. That’s where you want to steer things. You want him to feel so turned on. Nothing’s simpler than talk about the things that would turn up the room’s temperature.

 

Men are very visual creatures.

 

Whatever it is that you say, guys would see it at the back of their head whether they like it or not. Say it in a slow manner with a sultry voice, you’re sure to have your boyfriend turning red before he realizes it.

 

Another thing that would make this easier for you is to talk about sexy things you did. That way, your guy would have an instant image of what you’re saying.

 

Something like: “I love the way you look as you gently bit my belly.” That will get you a second round of hot monkey love.

 

What To Say To Turn Him On 2 – Talk About Sexy Things When Least Expected

Talking to turn him on doesn’t have to be enclosed within the 4 corners of your bedroom.

 

You can get him all steamed up for you before he even sees you. Calling him at the unexpected times – like lunch time or office hours, would have more impact than you’d ever imagine.

 

Try a simple: “I’m done with my bath, honey. I’m only wearing a towel and still dripping wet…I wish you’re here.” That would get his mind moving to the right direction.

 

If you’re feeling uncomfortable at doing it, try sending him a teasing note or an SMS. This way you can be as open and detailed as you want.

 

What To Say To Turn Him On 3 – Find The Smooth Talker Within You

Most smooth and steamy talkers, both men and women, have developed their own style whenever they want to press the hot buttons of their partners.

 

A small step in this direction is avoiding scientific terms like penis whenever you’re gearing up for some action. Try something that isn’t so formal in the ears.

 

Listen to him when he talks steamily. Watch out for the terms that he’s using and adopt that. In a way, you’re building instant connection with your boyfriend because you’re using the jargons that he’s blurting out whether unconsciously or consciously.

 

That should wrap up the simple yet effective tips.

 

Remember, you don’t need to rush. You want to come off as natural and genuine whenever you’re trying to get your man turned on.

 

Go press his buttons!

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