Sexuality


Chris Roberts asked:


You should find out more even you think that you have learnt a bit about the art of dirty talking. There are two sides of everything. If you end up becoming over confident then you may start talking rubbish with your partner. So you have to learn what not to say while talking dirty. If you really want to be erotic and make your partner feel passionate about your dirty talks then you need to take care about both dos and don’ts. I am sure you don’t want to spoil the good sexy mood of your partner by saying the wrong things at the wrong time.

I would explain what not to say while talking dirty by example. Here is the first example. You should not talk to your partner about your menstruation cycles or your physical problems. This would truly turn him off. Never take a chance of talking to your partner about your gastric or unwell stomach problems. The passion that you would have created till now would all go in vain.

Now, here is the example number two. You should never talk to your partner about your pets or your family problems. Nobody would like to listen to these things when they’re in truly sexy mood. If your pet is disturbing you by barking then you should better send it out of your bedroom. Another important thing is don’t rush into things by saying that “Lets finish it quickly I am feeling tired”. If you are tired then how can you expect your partner to feel enthusiastic about you?

Dirty talks can really improve your relationships with your partner. But you need to practice it to reach to the perfection. You can control your partner feelings or mood if you know what not to say while talking dirty.

 

 



Chris Roberts asked:


Is your sex life a little dull lately? Spice it up by talking dirty to your man. There are several ways you can talk dirty like a simple moan and groan accompanied by some heavy breathing is a form of talking dirty.

Learn when and how to say just the right thing. The last thing you want to do is say the wrong thing at the wrong time. For example if you shout out “more!” and he’s finished he may be embarrassed and you will definitely be so embarrassed too!

You have to pay attention to what’s going on and choose your words carefully, you don’t need to really put a lot of thought in to the how to say it but when to say it.

Most couples get caught up in sex and sometimes lose track of their common sense and say stupid things, which may get you a very funny look or kill the mood all together.  The last thing you ever want to say is “Are you done yet” or “You’re done already” as you can see these are not exactly compliments.

Many woman and men fantasize during sex which is normal and usually the “fantasy” is about a celebrity or a model. You can certainly see how calling out the wrong name even if it is “Brad Pitt” or “Tyra Bank” will kill the whole thing instantly.

In order to keep from offending your lover you should always have his name on the tip of your tongue even if your mind is off with Brad Pitt.

Believe it or not many couples also have problems knowing what to say when talking dirty to each other. If your normal demeanor is quiet and romantic yelling out something raunchy will most likely be a huge turn off for him.

On the other hand if you’re generally a little wild one then a lame “Oh Baby!” will also be the wrong thing to say.

The most important thing to remember when you’re talking dirty to your man is to be yourself after all that’s what he loves about you, so don’t try to be someone you’re not!