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Mon 2 Mar 2009
Very Funny sayings and quotes LOL
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Sat 28 Feb 2009
Attention Bartenders! The Little Things You Say Make All The Difference
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Jeremy Sherk asked:
As a bartender, the little things you say to your customers can make all the difference between running a lively crowded bar full of repeat, high spending customers and a bar that is empty and leaves a negative impression in people’s minds.
Let’s look at an easy way to keep the mood around your bar positive while remaining confident and in a position of power. The first thing to do is smile most of or all of the time.
If you look genuinely happy it will be contagious and create a positive mood in your bar. Whatever you do, do not be a “fake” happy. It has to be real, otherwise people see right through your generic smile.
You can also create a positive mood to settle impatient or restless customers by choosing your words carefully when speaking to them. Let’s say you’ve kept a customer waiting longer than necessary for a drink.
What most aware/polite bartenders would say when approaching that customer to take their order is…. “Sorry to keep you waiting…” While that is definitely better than not acknowledging their wait time at all, there’s still a much better way to go about this.
“Sorry” comes from a place of weakness, thus, it can also further ignite an impatient customer’s negative feelings (or rage) towards you. It also implies you are in the “wrong,” but you’ve in fact done nothing wrong.
Mentioning the word “waiting” also focuses on the fact that the customer had to wait! The entire statement comes from a place of weakness and has a negative focus… so much for being polite.
The funny thing is… almost everyone out there says that sort of thing. While the intention of that statement is harmless… it has unfavorable effects subconsciously. Want proof? Say it to an impatient customer and watch their reaction.
Want to hear a much better way of saying that and get a much more positive response out of the customer? A much better statement, which comes from a place of strength, rather than weakness would be to say “Thank you for your patience.”
This statement fully acknowledges the customer with a “Thank you” and the word “patience” is focusing on something positive… their patience! When you say this, the customer’s subconscious says “I’m patient” and it will immediately ease their tension from being impatient.
Using these psychological tactics will work wonders with your customers, while also increasing your tips. It’s minor details like this that make a good bartender great. These are the traits of a truly conscious bartender.
Try it your next shift and watch your tips explode because of the all-pervasive positive feelings around your bar.
As a bartender, the little things you say to your customers can make all the difference between running a lively crowded bar full of repeat, high spending customers and a bar that is empty and leaves a negative impression in people’s minds.
Let’s look at an easy way to keep the mood around your bar positive while remaining confident and in a position of power. The first thing to do is smile most of or all of the time.
If you look genuinely happy it will be contagious and create a positive mood in your bar. Whatever you do, do not be a “fake” happy. It has to be real, otherwise people see right through your generic smile.
You can also create a positive mood to settle impatient or restless customers by choosing your words carefully when speaking to them. Let’s say you’ve kept a customer waiting longer than necessary for a drink.
What most aware/polite bartenders would say when approaching that customer to take their order is…. “Sorry to keep you waiting…” While that is definitely better than not acknowledging their wait time at all, there’s still a much better way to go about this.
“Sorry” comes from a place of weakness, thus, it can also further ignite an impatient customer’s negative feelings (or rage) towards you. It also implies you are in the “wrong,” but you’ve in fact done nothing wrong.
Mentioning the word “waiting” also focuses on the fact that the customer had to wait! The entire statement comes from a place of weakness and has a negative focus… so much for being polite.
The funny thing is… almost everyone out there says that sort of thing. While the intention of that statement is harmless… it has unfavorable effects subconsciously. Want proof? Say it to an impatient customer and watch their reaction.
Want to hear a much better way of saying that and get a much more positive response out of the customer? A much better statement, which comes from a place of strength, rather than weakness would be to say “Thank you for your patience.”
This statement fully acknowledges the customer with a “Thank you” and the word “patience” is focusing on something positive… their patience! When you say this, the customer’s subconscious says “I’m patient” and it will immediately ease their tension from being impatient.
Using these psychological tactics will work wonders with your customers, while also increasing your tips. It’s minor details like this that make a good bartender great. These are the traits of a truly conscious bartender.
Try it your next shift and watch your tips explode because of the all-pervasive positive feelings around your bar.
Mon 2 Feb 2009
Sweet Things to Say to Your Boyfriend: 2 Hot Tips to Melt Your Boyfriend’s Heart
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Michael Lee asked:
So you want to know what sweet things to say to your boyfriend? After all, girls are not the only ones who can benefit from a little bit of sweet talk.
To be quite honest, guys can sometimes use a whole bucket load of sweet stuff. But don’t expect them to ask for it. Your boyfriend, for one, would probably not admit that he wants you to say such things to him. So it’s up to you to figure out what sweet things to say to your boyfriend.
Your boyfriend does not necessarily want to be told that he’s the most beautiful boy you have ever laid your eyes on (although that works for some). Guys and girls are not made of the same ingredients.
Luckily, you have this article to help you figure out what sweet things to say to your boyfriend.
1) Call out his name… and then tell him “I love you.”
You do not need an excuse to tell your boyfriend that you love him. A lot of people might think that the phrase is overused but I beg to differ.
Telling the person you love that you love him should be the most natural thing in the world. What I advise is that you spring it on him when he least expects it (but not if you two haven’t said these three words to each other yet!).
Casually call out his name as if you want him to run a few errands for you. Once you have his attention, smile and tell him that you love him. This will be sure to leave a smile on his lips for the rest of the day.
2) You are the most wonderful guy I have ever met.
The word “wonderful” transcends the physical. However, other adjectives like “amazing” and “sexiest” will also do as long as you use them in superlative form. These sweet things to say to your boyfriend will assure him that you only have eyes for him.
Guys like knowing that they are special in someone’s eyes. These sweet things to say to your boyfriend will make him feel even more special because you’re the one saying them.
So you want to know what sweet things to say to your boyfriend? After all, girls are not the only ones who can benefit from a little bit of sweet talk.
To be quite honest, guys can sometimes use a whole bucket load of sweet stuff. But don’t expect them to ask for it. Your boyfriend, for one, would probably not admit that he wants you to say such things to him. So it’s up to you to figure out what sweet things to say to your boyfriend.
Your boyfriend does not necessarily want to be told that he’s the most beautiful boy you have ever laid your eyes on (although that works for some). Guys and girls are not made of the same ingredients.
Luckily, you have this article to help you figure out what sweet things to say to your boyfriend.
1) Call out his name… and then tell him “I love you.”
You do not need an excuse to tell your boyfriend that you love him. A lot of people might think that the phrase is overused but I beg to differ.
Telling the person you love that you love him should be the most natural thing in the world. What I advise is that you spring it on him when he least expects it (but not if you two haven’t said these three words to each other yet!).
Casually call out his name as if you want him to run a few errands for you. Once you have his attention, smile and tell him that you love him. This will be sure to leave a smile on his lips for the rest of the day.
2) You are the most wonderful guy I have ever met.
The word “wonderful” transcends the physical. However, other adjectives like “amazing” and “sexiest” will also do as long as you use them in superlative form. These sweet things to say to your boyfriend will assure him that you only have eyes for him.
Guys like knowing that they are special in someone’s eyes. These sweet things to say to your boyfriend will make him feel even more special because you’re the one saying them.
